When it comes to your wedding, you spend a lot of time thinking about the guests, your family and friends, you want to please them and make everything perfect so that they have a great experience, and an unforgettable memory of the event.
You might try to get the opinion of other people, see what is in fashion, or receive suggestions from others who have recently got married, to make your wedding better. However, this can be overwhelming and can generate a lot of stress. While busy trying to meet the expectations of others, it may lead you to forget about satisfying your own expectations, and, after all, it is you who are getting married.
Whether you are considering an intimate family affair at the beach or looking at full blown Indian wedding venues to accommodate hundreds of guests, being organised, and accepting help when necessary, will allow you to plan a truly spectacular wedding, which makes everybody happy.
So, here are some tips to facilitate the organisation of your wedding and help everything go perfectly.
Be true to yourselves
A wedding celebrates the union of two people who decide to share their lives together, and who want to involve their loved ones in this union through a celebration; so, everything must start from the feelings and the taste of the couple.
It is usually the bride who takes on the thousands of tasks and details that are required in the organisation, however, try to get involved together in this. Your partner can take charge of, for example, the selection of music, the type of car that will take you to the church, the lighting, the type of food, and a lot of other things, too.
You’ll need help – accept it when offered
Count on your friends to support you, and help de-stress you from this hard work. They can be extremely important for any moments of anxiety, and should be involved in helping you choose your wedding dress, the cake, and other details that will be essential.
Listen to everything they recommend, or their advice, but be faithful to yourself and your fiancé’s ideas; do not let yourself be guided only by the fashion of the moment. It is your day, and something that makes a special and unforgettable wedding is the personalisation that the bride and groom give to the details, the decoration, etc., showing with subtlety what represents them as a couple.
Avoid forgetting things – write it all down
Finally, make a folder where you can keep everything related to the wedding, and always have at hand a notebook to record ideas, so as to not leave anything out. Make the guest list together, as well as the selection of the church, and the place where the reception will take place, so both of you have a say in these critical decisions.
Use these tips to help you organise a truly amazing and unforgettable wedding, one which you will all look back on in years to come with fondness and happiness.